Showing posts with label engagement. Show all posts
Showing posts with label engagement. Show all posts

Tuesday, December 27, 2011

HAPPY NEW YEAR! Looking for 2012!

2011 is almost behind us and 2012 is right in front. What will it hold is the question everyone is asking.

2012 is going to be a wonderful year for weddings. Many couples got engaged over the holidays and are looking forward to starting their lives together as husband and wife.

Some of you may be wondering what trends are showing up:

1) White weddings - everything is white including flowers, attendants attire, mothers' dresses and even guests can be asked to wear white.
2) Colors - The rich jewel tones are being included in the flowers
3) Smaller guest lists- Couples are choosing to include only those family and friends who really mean a lot to them.
4) Formal weddings - Black tie is back in vogue.
5) Destination weddings - Couples are choosing beautiful, romantic spots like the Rocky Mountains in Colorado, Cancun, Mexico, Italy for their weddings. This way they keep the guest list small, if any. (I'm doing a lot of "Planned Elopements" which includes setting up spa dates, a special romantic lunch/dinner for the couple, performing the ceremony etc. This also allows the couple to stay in a beautiful resort for their honeymoon.)
6) Hiring a wedding coordinator - Couples, and especially brides' mothers are finding they can actually enjoy the planning and the wedding by turning the details and stress over to a coordinator.
7) Pets - if it's possible to include a special pet do! Just be sure to have a handler take over the animal after their job is done.

These are just a few of the trends for 2012. What are your ideas, thoughts, dreams and desires for your wedding day? Bring them to Weddings, Etc. LLC and we'll help make it happen. www.weddingsbytanya.com.

On another note - Weddings, Etc. LLC is expanding to Houston, TX! Look for the formal announcement coming soon!

Wishing everyone a Very Happy and Safe New Year!

Wednesday, December 23, 2009

MERRY CHRISTMAS

Well, it's hard to believe we are only two days away from Christmas! I'd like to thank everyone who helped make this such a fantastic year. I had the opportunity to work with many wonderful people from all over the world.

If you are getting engaged or are newly engaged remember:
1- Get a copy of my book, WEDDING PLANNING GUIDE, A Bride's Workbook(c)
2-Book your vendors now
3-Enjoy your engagement
4- Remember I travel so it doesn't matter where you live or where you want to get married!
5- Check out www.weddingsbytanya.com for lots of wedding planning information

Wishing you all a VERY MERRY CHRISTMAS and a FANTASTIC 2010!

Thursday, October 29, 2009

Virginia wedding




I've talked about the beautiful venue in Virgia, Silverbrook Farm. Here's some pictures from this venue. You can't go wrong with this beautiful place!

Friday, May 1, 2009

HAPPY MAY DAY!

Can you believe it' May already? Wedding season is getting ready to burst forth just like the flowers!

The economy is easing a bit, but still has couples worrying about their weddings and how to have the one they want for the budget they have available.

One of the best ways to keep in check is to hire a good wedding coordinator. I can't emphasize how important this is as we know the vendors who will do the best job for them within their budget. One of the big ways we save you money is in time. Let us make the inital calls to pre-qualfy vendors for you.

A possible thought is to do a Planned Elopement. There is no reason that an elopement needs to be just to Vegas anymore. I can help you plan anywhere you'd like to go, including the Philippine Islands and be there if you'd like. A Planned Elopement can be a elaborate as you'd like. It can include flowers, photography, videography, special dinner arrangements, wedding cake and just about anything else you'd like included. I take care of all the arrangements and can preform the ceremony.

Destination weddings are a great way to save money as it limits the number of guests who will attend.

Don't spend your valuable time researching venues and vendors. Give me a call or email for more information on how I can help you. I'm happy to travel outside of Colorado should you care to hire someone who hasn't worked with all your friends and can give you a fresh take on planning your wedding. I currently have a few dates available for 2009 and am booking into 2010 on a limited basis.

I'm currently working on a traditional Hindi wedding so those of you who are going to have an Indian/Asian wedding, I do have first hand knowledge of the traditions and can help make your day special. Denver is a beautiful place for your wedding.

Check out http://www.weddingsbytanya.com/ or tanya@weddingsbytanya.com for information.

Friday, May 2, 2008

Groom's Corner

I've decided to devote a corner of my blog to grooms. Watch each month for more tips. Here's the first addition.

GROOM’S CORNER

Groom’s have long felt that their place, in wedding planning, has been to dress up and show up. Guess what!!!!
This has changed.

Today’s modern groom realizes that his ideas and desires are also important. Gone are the days when the bride makes all the decisions, especially since more and more couples are paying for their own weddings.

What then should a groom plan on? First off, what is a groom responsible for?

Let’s start with the proposal. How and when generally puts a man into a cold sweat. Don’t worry, I’m here to help. Whether you want something simple, like a picnic in the park, or something complex, such as a trip to Hawaii, Las Vegas, Paris, I can also handle all the details to make it a perfect moment for the two of you. And, don’t forget the photographer and videographer. You want to capture each moment and emotion so you can add these to your wedding album and wedding video.

Now, what kind of ring do you want to give your special lady? It can be a diamond, colored diamond, a pearl, birthstone, actually any gemstone that may peak her fancy. Size? Some people will say you need to spend the equivalent to two month’s pay. Let common sense be your guide. Spend what you can afford. Keep in mind that if you purchase a beautiful, top grade quarter diamond, on your fifth, tenth, fifteenth or twentieth anniversary, you can surprise your bride with an upgrade to a larger stone. It’s the thought that counts, not the size. If your lady is more concerned about the size and how much is spent, take a step back and reassess your situation. Keep in mind the Four C’s – Carets, Color, Clarity and Cut. (For a wonderful resource, before buying a diamond, read How to Buy A Diamond by Fred Cuellar.)

Should your lady pick out the ring? If you want to surprise her, you can casually ask what she likes, maybe during a shopping trip, to get ideas. Before purchasing a ring, ask the jeweler about return policies if she doesn’t care for the mounting. In this case, present the ring, then the two of you go back to the store and she can select a mounting more to her liking. (I’ve actually orchestrated a proposal where the jeweler brought the ring to be presented with the understanding if she liked it, the groom would be purchasing it. If she didn’t like it, then the two of them would go into the store to select one she did like.)

If you want your bride to be to select her own ring, visit the jeweler ahead of time to talk with them about how much you want to spend so they will show rings only within the price range. Select your jeweler as you would a doctor. You want someone you can build a relationship with, as you will, no doubt, be purchasing additional jewelry items throughout your lifetime. You want someone you can trust, who you know will listen to what you want and who you know will deal upfront and honestly with you.

Okay, you’ve gotten down on one knee, popped the question, and she said yes…now what?

Here’s a list of what, traditionally, the groom and his family is responsible for…

Brides engagement/wedding rings.
Marriage License.
Ceremony official's fee (many times the bride’s family will pay this as well.)
(Going-away corsage for the bride if leaving directly on their honeymoon.)
Wedding gift for bride.
Gifts for best man and ushers
Wedding night suite
Rehearsal dinner
Honeymoon
Blood tests
Gloves, ties, and ascots for men in wedding party.

Attendants pay for:
Personal wedding attire.
Personal traveling expenses.
Personal hotel expenses

Why should you and your bride consider hiring a wedding coordinator?
Let me distinguish between a site coordinator (hotel wedding coordinator) and what I do. The hotel or site coordinator is just that. They are there for the benefit of the venue. I, on the other hand, am there to assist you and your bride with your planning by recommending qualified and proven vendors, working with you to figure out what to give your attendants, groomsmen, and even assist finding the right gift for your bride. I work with you both to be sure everything is in the order you want your day to be and then am on site to make sure it happens.

During your planning process, I’m available to assist with any questions, help you find a good tux shop, and even recommend a honeymoon spot.

Another important item I, as your wedding coordinator, do is to supply an extensive emergency kit. Buttons fall off, shirt necks don’t always fit or one of the groomsmen may have forgotten to brush his teeth. I can take care of all these things plus many more.

A good wedding coordinator is available to the groom as much as the bride. Groom’s love to surprise their brides with a lovely card, note or letter on their wedding day and I can be your “postman” to deliver it.

Have more questions about being a groom? Call me at 303-779-0395 or email me at tporterweddsetc@hotmail. I’m always happy to meet you over coffee, the lunch hour, after hours to assist you any way I can to allow you to enjoy your engagement and wedding planning process.

Yes, grooms, you are a very important part of the wedding…remember it’s your wedding too!!!

Tuesday, March 25, 2008

Silver Rose Proposals

This evening a gentleman is going to propose to the love of his life. (In this case, they've been married for 14 years and he wants to give her the wedding they never had.)

Whether you are getting engaged for the first or second time, coming up with a creative way to ask your beloved for her hand in marriage can be difficult.

I'm happy to offer this service in addition to my wedding coordination services. Together, we'll come up with the site, if you want a photographer, videographer, or want to enter with a horse and buggy, something that fits both your personalities.

Give me a call to help you come up with a proposal to remember. You can call 303-779-0395, email tporterweddsetc@hotmail.com or contact through www.weddingsbytanya.com

Monday, February 18, 2008

Proposal Planning

Proposal planning is the latest thing in the wedding market.

When a couple is ready to make the big committment, sometimes a gentleman just doesn't know what or how he wants to do to make the proposal special so they are hiring a Proposal Planner to assist them.

Well, I'm that person! Not only can I assist you with the Proposal, but I can then assist you when planning your wedding as your Wedding Coordinator.

You want to keep in mind that this is a special time for both of you and select a way that fits you. Are you a romantic? Then how about a carriage ride, picnic and pop the question. Don't forget the photographer and or videographer to capture the moment.

I charge a flat fee, depending on the complexity of the proposal. For assistance, give me a call or email me at 303-779-0395 or tporterweddsetc@hotmail.com.

Let me help make this an event you'll remember the rest of your lives!

Thursday, February 14, 2008

Engagements

HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY! Tis the season of love!
Many couples will take advantage of the theme of the day to express their love and get engaged.

Take time to enjoy being engaged. Don't feel like you have to rush to the phone and start asking people to be part of your wedding party. Think this through first! Let the joy and fantastic feeling of being engaged sink in. Hopefully your parents will throw an Engagement Party. If they don't or don't live close enough, through one yourselves. Let your friends and family share in your joy.

One of the first things a bride-to-be should do is locate and hire a good wedding coordinator. Start your planning process out with little stress and the knowledge that you and your plans are in good hands.

When you do get ready to start planning, take a look at www.weddingsbytanya.com. I'm more than happy to work with you no matter where you are! 303-779-0395

Be sure to check out the WEDDING PLANNING GUIDE, A Bride's Workbook...one of the most complete and easy to use guides on the market.

HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY and HAPPY ENGAGEMENT!

Wednesday, January 23, 2008

Class being offered to help brides get started

Every quarter I offer a one night course through Arapahoe Community College in Littleton, CO for brides who need help in getting started. This is a 2.5 hr. class where you can ask questions and get answers. The class is Feb.13,2008 from 6:30 pm - 9:00 pm. This is a great class for the bride and her groom or mother to attend as it will give you a running start on your planning.

To register call 303-797-5722, ask for course PERS 1026W01 How to Plan your Wedding.

To hire a coordinator or not to--that is the question.

Why hire a wedding designer/coordinator?

You’ve started planning your wedding and the first thing you run into is the wedding coordinator at the venue you’ve chosen. Why then do you need to hire a wedding coordinator if one is already in the package?

What is the difference between a hotel wedding coordinator, a church wedding coordinator, a site wedding coordinator and a wedding coordinator?

A site coordinator is just that…they are there for the venue, whether it’s the church or hotel. They are there on behalf of the site to make sure the site is treated with respect and that the rules of the venue are followed. What they don’t do is sew on missing buttons, remove stains, supply black socks if a groomsman forgets his.

A wedding coordinator is someone you’ve worked with during the entire planning process and have come to trust. We know what you want, what your dream is and strive to make it happen.

Is hiring a wedding designer/coordinator worth the money? To be honest, I’m always hearing brides say that they wished they would have done it then maybe things would have run smoother, or they would have enjoyed their day.

A wedding designer/coordinator doesn’t have to be certified. Anyone can decide they want to plan weddings and set up shop. What being certified means is that the coordinator cared enough to get further training and the certificate shows they did. There are many organizations that offer certificates, including the one I’ve founded Trained Wedding Professionals, which offers the course “The Art of Wedding Coordination”. It never hurts to ask if the person you are considering has taken a course.

A wedding designer/coordinator will also work closely with your vendors so you don’t have to worry about them doing their job. It takes a team to have a successful wedding/event and a good coordinator knows how to make this happen.

Is it money well spent? This is something you need to decide for yourself. Don’t be afraid to ask for references then call them. Past clients will give you the most honest feedback you can get. Make your decision based on the experience of the coordinator as well as how they make you feel. Do they listen to you or do they try to tell you what they think you need? Do they make you feel at ease? If so, you’ve probably found the right person to entrust your wedding day to.

Need more information? Call 303-779-0395, e-mail tporterweddsetc@hotmail.com or go to www.weddingsbytanya.com. We’re happy to take calls and appointments after hours and week-ends to fit your schedule.

Day Of Services

Why my “Day Of” package isn’t $500.

Many are the times when brides or mothers comment on the fact that I charge what I do for the services I perform for the “Day Of” package. You’ve heard the statement “you get what you pay for and in many cases this is very true. I’m not saying that you won’t get good service if you pay less because I can only speak for myself. With 18 years of experience behind me, what I can tell you what you’ll receive if you hire me.

Yes, you may have found and contracted all your vendors; made your decisions on what food to serve; what musicians or DJs to use, but what you haven’t done is pull all facets together.

Putting together a timeline isn’t something that is done in an hour. Many weddings, I do, require weeks to pull everything together the way the bride wants the flow to go. Then the hard work starts. Not only do I make sure that the vendors will be at the venue, but I personally make a final tour of the facility to iron out any potential problems ahead of time.
I personally attend the rehearsal and choreograph it. The day of the wedding, I’m the first one on site and the last to leave the reception, stopping first by where the bride is getting ready, to make certain that the make-up artist and hair stylist have arrived and that she and her wedding party, have everything they need before I move onto the ceremony site. I’ve had times when I’ve been at the hotel at 5 am to get things started and haven’t left the reception until 2 am.

My job is to make sure the bride/groom and their families are able to be guests at their own wedding. Mom or Dad doesn’t have to worry about if the cake was delivered, if the chair covers are properly installed or that the cake topper, serving pieces, or the Waterford flutes are returned. All this takes time and effort.

I love what I do. There’s nothing more rewarding than seeing a beautiful, beaming bride float down the aisle to her waiting, handsome prince charming. Each wedding is important to me, whether you have chosen the Full Package, the Partial Package or the Day Of, you will be treated, as you deserve, as a princess for the day.
Need more information? Call 303-779-0395 or check out www.weddingsbytanya.com

Wednesday, December 26, 2007

Newly Engaged? Getting Started

'Tis the season for engagements. CONGRATULATIONS to those of you who have just made the committment.

Some questions you may be asking....

What to do first?
Locate and book your ceremony and reception sites - your wedding date may be 18 months away, but if possible get your deposit down on your chosen location. Details can be taken care of later.

Next start by booking a good wedding coordinator. A good coordinator will not take over, they will assist you with bring your vision to fruition. Well worth the money, but do ask for and DO CHECK references.

Start looking for vendors - Your coordinator will have a list of qualified and verified vendors they should be able to recommend. If you aren't utilizing a coordinator at this stage, then ask friends and past brides for recommendations. Again, check references. Meet with each vendors (try to keep your list to 3 vendors per category to keep it manageable). If you get a "warm fuzzy feeling" then you know you've found the right one. It's very important that you feel comfortable with each vendor as they are handling one of the most important days of your life!

Be prepared to put 50% deposit down with most vendors. Keep in mind this is probably a non-refundable deposit.

Once you have the above mentioned things in place, you are ready to start with the details.

For a complete guide to planning your wedding, check out my book, WEDDING PLANNING GUIDE, A Bride's Workbook. It's available through my website www.weddingsbytanya.com.

HAPPY PLANNING! HAPPY NEW YEAR!

Tuesday, December 11, 2007

Must Have for the Newly Engaged

'Tis the season for engagements! My WEDDING PLANNING GUIDE, A Bride's Workbook, makes a wonderful engagement gift or Christmas present. It's been touted as being the easiest guide on the market to use. It's in 3-ring binder form, full of great information and plenty of room for adding your own info and notes. Be prepared when going to meet with prospective vendors. Have the questions to ask at your finger tips.

For more information or to order, go to www.weddingsbytanya.com or call 303-779-0395. We accept cash and checks. For a bigger savings, combine the guide with the DVD - The Art of Wedding Coordination.

Monday, December 3, 2007

Attendant selection tip

Dec. 3, 2007
'Tis the season for engagements! Newely engaged ladies tend to rush to the phone, call all their best friends and ask everyone to be in the wedding party. Before you do this consider the following:
1) Can she afford to be an attendant
Can she afford the dress, travel and lodging?
2) Do all the girls get along?
3) Are any of the girls "prima-donnas"? (This can cause a lot of problems for you.)
4) You don't have to have an equal number on each side.
5) Yes, you can have a man on the bride's side and a woman on the groom's.

Happy planning! You'll find more tips like these on my website http://www.weddingsbytanya.com/.