Monday, December 29, 2008

2009 Wedding Planning

CONGRATULATIONS! to all of you who got or are getting engaged over the holidays.

Once it has taken hold that you have a wedding to plan, it may feel overwhelming.

I've put together a 2-3 hr. (depending on how many questions you have) session where I help couples get a good start with their planning. In this session, we'll cover just how to start; how to find good vendors; what type of wedding do you want; what about the budget?

During this session, you might find you'd rather have a coordinator help take the stress/burden of planning and producing your wedding off you! I can help you with this decision as well.

The whole idea is to help you feel more comfortable when meeting with vendors and what to expect.

Please give me a call at 303-779-0395 or email me at tanya@weddingsbytanya.com with any questions or to schedule a session.

Check out my website www.weddingsbytanya.com for addional information about me and my services.

Also, I'll be doing an interview on the Morning Show on KEZW 1430 AM, on January 30, 2009, at 7:45 am. Tune in and learn about my Wedding Planning Guide, A Bride's Workbook!

In the meantime, Wishing you all a Very HAPPY NEW YEAR and Happy Wedding Planning!

Saturday, December 20, 2008

Weddings, the Economy and Budgets




First let me, along with my mascots, Sandy and Remus, wish everyone a Very Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays. May you enjoy a beautiful, peaceful time with your families and loved ones.
For those of you who will be getting engaged, remember to enjoy your engagement for a bit before starting on the road to planning your wedding. When you are ready to start planning your wedding, start with a good coordinator. They will save you a lot of time (and we all know that time is money)!

The economy hasn't been to kind to anyone this year and to help accommodate those planning weddings, I'm offering payment plans for any of my packages. There is no interest charged. This allows you to spread out your payments so you can select the services that you need and not settle for just any package. Hopefully this will help your budgets.

To discuss this option, please email me at tanya@weddingsbytanya or call me at 303-779-0395. Remember, I'm happy to travel anywhere to help make your day special and worry free.

For those of you, who may be out of the country, but are interested in an American style wedding, I'm also happy to assist you.

I'm predicting that destination/planned elopements will be popular in 2009, mainly because the cost and pressure of planning a full wedding can be eliminated. Imagine, coming to Colorado to the beautiful mountains, getting married and spending 2-4 days in a four star resort and still going home with money in your pocket. This is doable with a planned elopement. Let me take care of all the details for you.

For all you "soon to be grooms" if you don't propose over the holidays and are looking for the right time and place, keep me in mind. My Silver Rose Proposal package is one you might consider to help you come up with just the right moment and way to pop that all important question.

Again, Wishing you all the best and blessings of the Holiday Season!

Friday, December 5, 2008

Wedding Budget


MERRY CHRISTMAS and HAPPY HOLIDAYS to all of you!


It's the season when many couples choose to get engaged and start planning their weddings for 2009!


If you are looking for a great gift for your fiancee, daughter, friend or anyone who is getting married then you need WEDDING PLANNING GUIDE, A Bride's Workbook. This is one of the easiest guides available to help you with your planning. It will take you start to finish with ease. Of course, if you decide it's over-whelming, then give me a call and I'll be happy to pick up where you leave off :-) You can order this workbook through www.weddingsbytanya.com.


This year, the economy hasn't been very kind to any of us. With this in mind, set a reasonable budget for yourself when planning your wedding. The last thing you want is to start married life in debt! Remember, if you can't afford the big wedding, small, intimate weddings (such as planned elopements) can be done now then have the big, elaborate one on your fifth or tenth wedding anniversary.
One thing a wedding coordinator will help with is to keep you inside your budget. Talk things over with them before buying things that may be a waste of your money. Try to purchase items you'll be able to use in your new home. For example, toasting flutes to match your crystal.
2009 should hold a brighter outlook for everyone and I certainly wish this for you and yours. Thank you for reading my blog and please, if you ever have questions or need help, email me at tanya@weddingsbytanya.com or call 303-779-0395.
Wishing you and yours a VERY MERRY CHRISTMAS and a HAPPY and PROSPEROUS NEW YEAR!

Saturday, November 8, 2008

Luxury Weddings -Destination Colorado

I just returned from an overnight visit to the Vail/Beaver Creek, Leadville, CO areas.
If you are considering Colorado either as a home or destination wedding I'd like to share three venues that I visited.

Vail is the home of a brand new hotel, the Arrabelle at Vail Square. If you've ever traveled to the south of Germany, in the Bravarian area, you'll swear you are there again. This hotel is a village within the village of Vail.

If you want luxury, there's no place like the Arrabeelle. You are met at your car by the Bell Captain, taken to the front desk, where you are met by your own personal butler (trained in the English manner), escorted to your room, where your butler will do everything from putting your clothes away, ironing out the wrinkles to bring you coffee in bed in the morning.

I could go on and on about this fantastic venue, but want to leave some surprises for those of you who decide to visit there. I will say they have a beautiful ballroom that can easily hold 180 guests for a sit down dinner as well as an outdoor area for weddings.

Whether you are considering a memorable wedding or elopement, this is the place! Let me know and I'll be happy to assist with your planning. www.weddingsbytanya.com.

Nestled in Avon, just before you start up the mountain to Beaver Creek is the brand new Westin Riverfront. If you are looking for a Colorado feel, this is a venue certainly to be considered. They are one of the new "green" hotels, which includes bamboo robes! They have a wonderful, warm feel and would certainly welcome the larger weddings in the area. Also being close by the mountains of Beaver Creek, a beautiful spot for elopements.

If you are a romantic at heart and love the idea of a Victorian Wedding, complete with costumes, then consider the Delaware Hotel, founded in 1886. Leadville, for those history buffs, is the initial home of "Molly Brown". While the elevation of over 10,000 feet may be a consideration, there are so many things to do here from hiking, to biking, to fishing and you are only about 45 minute drive from Vail. This is truly a wonderful little Victorian town that has maintained the feel of the west. This hotel can do a sitdown dinner for 45 guests, has truly maintained it's feel of days past. Great for a small wedding or elopement. Each hotel room is different and very comfortable.

Another "hidden Jewel" in Vail is the Antler's. This facility is all condos, for comfort, is affordable, and has everything from one bedroom to four bedroom condos. Located on the creek and right across from the Vail mountain, this is the place for anyone who wants to experience Vail, but may be on more of a budget. Each room is equiped with a kitchen so you can fix your own meals, but are close enough to walk into Vail should you decide to enjoy the fine dining you can find in the village.

The Antler's also has room for ceremonies and weddings and ample opportunities for pictures in their beautiful courtyard with a wonderful waterfall flowing around two elk. Do check out this venue for your wedding or elopement.

As with any of these venues, I'm available to assist you plan your weddings. Just contact me through www.weddingsbytanya.com or tanya@weddingsbytanya.com. Let's create a wedding you and your guests will long remember! (I'm always happy to take calls after hours and week-ends to fit YOUR schedule.)

Thursday, November 6, 2008

Professional Vendors

Happy November! Just think, in three weeks we'll be having turkey and thinking about wrapping Christmas gifts!

Many couples will be getting engaged during these coming holidays. When you start looking for vendors, start with a reliable, trained and professional wedding coordinator. These are people who have put in the time to learn their trade. Yes, they will cost more, but it will be money well spent. Don't hesitate to ask for references of past brides, then call and talk to them.

Some questions to ask are, will this person listen to me and my dreams?
How available will they be to me during the planning process?
Do they work with reliable vendors?
Is this a person I feel comfortable with? This is important because you'll be entrusting them with one of the most important days of your life.
How long will this person be at the reception? You want to be sure that they won't leave during the reception as things may need to be handled and they won't be there to do so.
Are they willing to assist the groom if needed? (My feeling is that the groom is as much a part of the wedding as the bride! I'm there for both of you to assist in anyway possible.)
How do I feel about this person? Is this coordinator someone who I can trust and work with? After all, it's your wedding and you are in charge!

One of the main areas where a coordinator can save you a bunch of time (and time is money), is in recommending photographers/videographers. There's many people who fancy themselves wedding photographers, but do you want to entrust your once in a lifetime pictures to someone who has picked up a camera and fancies themselves to be a photographer?

This isn't saying that there aren't some good photographers out there who are switching over to weddings or starting up. What I'm saying is be cautious as this is one area where you really get what you pay for. Be careful.

Have an idea of what your budget is when visiting with any vendor. This way they can determine what will fit into it. Again, a coordinator can assist here as they will know, basically, what a photographer charges and will they fit your budget.

Some photographers will include a CD for you of all the pictures, and some won't, at least right away. The reason they don't is that it's the photographer's name and reputation that will be associated with any pictures printed. If they are printed just anywhere and don't come out, then the photographer will be blamed. If you are considering having your own pictures printed, ask the photographer to recommend a good lab so you'll get the quality you should have for these precious pictures.

In these tight economic times, you want to get the most for your money without compromising your dream. Let the professionals help. That's what we do best!

Sunday, October 12, 2008

Georgia Wedding

Can you believe it's October already!

I just returned from doing a wedding in Atlanta, Georgia.

What sets the south apart are the beautiful old buildings. The wedding ceremony took place in Trinity Methodist Church and the reception in St. Paul's Presbyterian Church (used to be known as The Abby), in downtown Atlanta. These churches were over 200 years old! They have dark woods, beautiful stained glass, and long, long aisles. Trinity has a wonderful pipe organ.

St. Paul's has their own caterering company, located within the church itself. Bridge Catering. The food was good and the staff were friendly and helpful. We brough in our own alcohol and soft drinks as well as the cake. (Ask for Andrew. He's a gem to work with!)

The cake was from Highland Bakery and was not only beautiful, but it tasted wonderful.

The photographer Linn Sinn-Clark (LSC Photography) was super, easy to work with, took many, many shots and was almost invisable, as was the videographer Complete Video and Music.

The flowers were so fresh and lovely. These were done by Woody and Cliff. Sorry, but I don't have the name of the florist.

It was a real treat to have the rehearsal dinner at Alpha Soda Resturant, an authentic Greek Resturant, complete with live musicians. The food was fantastic. It was a great evening.

Need a wedding coordinator in Georgia? I'll be glad to travel !

Monday, September 22, 2008

September in Colorado Wedding

This past week-end, I did a wedding in Keystone, Colorado. The ceremony was in the Quaking Aspen Ampitheater and the reception in the Keystone Pavilion. The aspen are just starting to change so the colors are spectacular in the area.

It did rain a bit, but the ceremony came off between showers and we provided enough umbrellas that guests were kept dry when needing to use the restrooms, that are located outside the tent!

To say The Wright Group (www.wrightgroup.com) and Encore Style (encorestyleinc@comcast.net) went the "extra mile" is an understatement. The Keystone Neighborhood Group, who operates the tent, said it was the most beautiful event they'd ever hosted in the tent! The draping and special lighting, along with the magnificant orchid arrangements took your breath away and created the perfect ambiance for the wedding.

The food, provided by Greg Boyington of Haute Touch (www.hautetouch.com) was to die for and the authentic Purto Rico wedding cake was provided by Teacup Shop (www.teacup-shop.com)
was a highlight!

Photography, provided by Von Dolce of Dolce Photography (www.vondolce.com) is nothing short of fantastic and the videographer Mares Video Productions (www.maresvideoproductions.com) did a fabulous job of the montage, shown throughout dinner as well as being one of the top videographers in the State. (Can't wait to see the final products from both of these vendors!)

Music was wonderful and really set the mood. For the ceremony, Rob Wivchar, played guitar and sang (robwivchar@hotmail.com) and Eclectic Edge Events, LLC (www.EclecticEdgeEvents.com) provided all the dance music and the DJ (Jim) kept the party going and had everyone on the dance floor!

The bride's natural beauty, was enhanced by Liz from Beauty on Location (www.Beautyonlocationbyliz.com) and the bride's hair made it through even the downpours, looking fresh and lovely.

It was spectacular to say the least. Want a mountain wedding like this one? Give me a call at 303-779-0395 or email me at tanya@weddingsbytanya.com and have a great Fall!

Thursday, August 21, 2008

Grooms' Corner

Today's grooms are more savey than in the past. They want to (or should) be involved in the wedding planning. Gone are the days when a groom just showed up, said "I do" and was done.



This is a groom's day as well as the bride's. Eventhough the focus is on the bride, there is as much emotion on the groom's part. This is your wedding day as well and you should feel like you can contribute if there's something you feel you'd like to say.



For example, if you have a female friend who means a lot and has been close, why not ask her to stand as your honor attendant. Nothing says you have to have a best man! Yes, she should dress like the other bridesmaids and carry a bouquet or something similar to the bridesmaids.



What if you have a special color you'd like included? Tell you bride about it and see if it can't be incorporated. (However, please understand not all brides are into NFL,NBA or MLB colors!!!!)

Drop hints as to what you might like to have if your bride decides to surprise you with a groom's cake. Don't like cake? I've had icecream cakes made to take the place of the cake.



Let your bride know your thoughts. She may not take all your suggestions, but I'm sure she'll be glad to hear you are interested in the planning.



Many groom's don't think a wedding coordinator is necessary, but let me recommend that if you want your bride, FMIL and your family to enjoy the day, you'll be the first to suggest it. Having a good coordinator is invaluable when it comes to figuring out complex issues such as blended families, working in children from a previous marriage, working out compromises between the two of you and families; and in helping you to have a stress and worry free day.



Have questions? I'm happy to help you from helping plan your proposal to any questions regardin wedding planning. Just email me at tanya@weddingsbytanya.com or call me at 303-779-0395. (I not only do weddings in Colorado, but am available to help plan and travel to your destination site.)



One last note if you just got engaged, consider giving your fiance a copy of my book WEDDING PLANNING GUIDE, A Bride's Workbook(c). It will make both your jobs easier! To order, email me or give me a call at 303-779-0395.



Have a great summer!

Wednesday, August 13, 2008

Destination Weddings vs. Planned Elopements

I want to differintiate between a Destination Wedding and a Planned Elopement.

A Destination Wedding is one that takes place away from your home and includes a number of guests generally under 50. These generally are 3-5 days in length, with activities planned for guests.

A Planned Elopement is a wedding that is generally the bride and groom and possible a couple of friends or family members.

Both are wonderful ways to keep costs in check, especially for those who would have a guest list of 400 if they stayed at home!

A big difference is that you need to expect the same amount of planning, from a wedding coordinator, to go into planning your destination wedding as you would if having a home wedding. Where with a "Planned Elopement" there's still a time factor, but not nearly as involved.

You can plan to pay a wedding coordinator the same for their services as if you were in the vicinity planning your wedding. The only additions I charge are for travel expenses if the wedding includes traveling outside the metro area.

The same for elopements. Fees are based on what services you want and what you want included.

I'm happy to assist with either your destination wedding or "Planned Elopement" and am available to travel to your chosen destination to take care of all details.

Check out my website at www.weddingsbytanya.com for additional information on packages, email me at tanya@weddingsbytanya.com or call 303-779-0395.

Friday, August 1, 2008

October in Atlanta, GA

Wanted to let anyone, in the Atlanta, GA area know that I will be in Atlanta Oct. 8-11. I'm coordinating a wedding there on the 10th, however, if you are interested in getting married in Colorado, taking the course The Art of Wedding Coordination, or even possibly having me coordinate your wedding in GA or elsewhere, I'd be happy to set up appointments to meet with you.

If you want to arrange a time, email me at tanya@weddingsbytanya.com with your name, wedding date, location, phone, email and a good time to reach you.

Involving Children

Can you believe it's August already? It's not to early to start the planning process for any weddings in 2009.

When the bride and groom have children, they look for ways to incorporate them into the ceremony. It's extremely important that children feel like they, too, are becoming part of the new family that's being created.

Several ideas as to how you can include them are:
* Have your officiant work a vow into the ceremony for them and you to take.
* When doing a unity candle (or whatever you use), have the children participate so they know they are included in this new family being formed.
* Present them with a special gift during the Unity celebration, or even when the rings are exchanged.
* If they are old enough, ask them to read a special poem or scripture.
* When you are presented, be presented as the Smith Family, instead of Mr. and Mrs. Fred Smith.

Hope these give you some ideas. Please feel free to contact me direct at tanya@weddingsbytanya.com if I can be of any assistance. www.weddingsbytanya.com

Have a great August!

Monday, July 21, 2008

Planned Elopements(c)

Earlier this month, I had the opportunity to assist a beautiful couple, from Florida, realize their dream of a wedding in the Rocky Mountain National Park. (They did a "planned elopement".)

The site the chose was Lily Lake, just south of Estes Park. This little lake is surrounded by the grandure of the Rocky Mountains. The Lake is clear with fish jumping and ducks swimming. (Did you know that ducks, geese and swans mate for life?) This has to be a good omen! I was the officiant.

Many couple who come to visit Colorado fall in love with the State and want to return to get married. Whether you want a full destination wedding with several days of interacting with guests, spas, and other wonderful outdoor activities, to a very romantic site for just the two of you, I can help.

If you are considering a mountain wedding, there are some things you might need to know. The wedding season is generally early June through mid October. The "high" season for the ski areas is generally Thanksgiving through the middle of March. (This is when the costs will be the greatest and less apt to receive discounts.) From April through May is generally known as the "mud season". You also need to keep the altitude in mind if considering older guests. Even those who want to elope, and are coming from sea level, need to allow time to get used to the thinner air.

Whether you want to do an eleborate, 150 guest, destinationa wedding at the Ritz Carlton in Bachelor Gultch, or a romantic elopement for just the two of you, I can assist.

Colorado offers everything from historic hotels in Denver, Mountain tops, to casinos for those who want to have fun without the hassel of Las Vegas.

Consider a "planned elopement". This is where I assit you with everything from officiating the ceremony to arranging for a photographer, helping with hotel arrangements etc. All this takes is a call to me to set up the date and time, idea of where you'd like to have the ceremony, then I send you a selection of vows to choose from or you may write your own. (I am happy to travel to anywhere you care to get married. For those brides planning destination weddings outside of Colorado, I'm happy to travel there as well.)

For more information call me at 303-779-0395 or email me at tanya@weddingsbytanya.com. Also, don't forget to checkout my information at www.weddingsbytanya.com

Until next time....

Sunday, June 15, 2008

Attendants gifts

Attendants gifts can be a real concern to decide what is just right.

First, they don't need to be the same. Take into consideration what each attendant likes then build on that. If you want to gift your bridesmaids with their jewelry to wear, consider having it custom made. A great website for this is www.lesliesarts.com. This artist can take your colors and ideas and create a lasting memory for each bridesmaid, as well as something they can continue to wear years later.

If you have an attendant that enjoys poetry, look for a first edition of his/her favorite poet. Wooden jewelry boxes are something both men and women can use. For groomsmen, if they enjoy beer, consider a six month subscription to "Beer of the Month" club.

Think outside the box. Give them something they will always treasure as well as use.

For parents, consider a beautiful crystal picture frame that they can display your wedding picture. Another thoughtful gift is to have a fruit basket or a tray of chocolate covered strawberries and champagne delivered to their home or room to be enjoyed after the wedding.

Need more personal ideas for gifts? Contact me through www.weddingsbytanya.com and I will work to help you come up with something spactular for each attendant!

Considering a gift for your bride or groom? Pearls are always a beautiful gift for the bride and one that she will be proud for your daughter to wear for her wedding. A diamond pendant is also something that every bride would cherish as well as something that she can wear on your wedding day.

A beautiful clock for him to show off on his desk is a possibility for the groom, as is a lovely watch.

Grooms Corner

It's June! The wedding season is officially off and running.

Groom's a couple of tips for you. Ask your groomsmen to wear a white t-shirt under their tux shirt. This will absorb any sweat and will make them much more comfortable during the day and evening. It also looks much better if they are photographed without their tux jackets and vests. (You don't have hairy backs!!!! :0)

Want to make a great lasting impression of your wedding day to your bride? Write a short one or two sentence note to your bride and have your coordinator attach it to her flowers for your bride to read before walking down the aisle into your new life together.

Need more help or suggestions for a wedding gift for your bride? Contact me through www.weddingsbytanya.com for help.

Friday, May 2, 2008

Groom's Corner

I've decided to devote a corner of my blog to grooms. Watch each month for more tips. Here's the first addition.

GROOM’S CORNER

Groom’s have long felt that their place, in wedding planning, has been to dress up and show up. Guess what!!!!
This has changed.

Today’s modern groom realizes that his ideas and desires are also important. Gone are the days when the bride makes all the decisions, especially since more and more couples are paying for their own weddings.

What then should a groom plan on? First off, what is a groom responsible for?

Let’s start with the proposal. How and when generally puts a man into a cold sweat. Don’t worry, I’m here to help. Whether you want something simple, like a picnic in the park, or something complex, such as a trip to Hawaii, Las Vegas, Paris, I can also handle all the details to make it a perfect moment for the two of you. And, don’t forget the photographer and videographer. You want to capture each moment and emotion so you can add these to your wedding album and wedding video.

Now, what kind of ring do you want to give your special lady? It can be a diamond, colored diamond, a pearl, birthstone, actually any gemstone that may peak her fancy. Size? Some people will say you need to spend the equivalent to two month’s pay. Let common sense be your guide. Spend what you can afford. Keep in mind that if you purchase a beautiful, top grade quarter diamond, on your fifth, tenth, fifteenth or twentieth anniversary, you can surprise your bride with an upgrade to a larger stone. It’s the thought that counts, not the size. If your lady is more concerned about the size and how much is spent, take a step back and reassess your situation. Keep in mind the Four C’s – Carets, Color, Clarity and Cut. (For a wonderful resource, before buying a diamond, read How to Buy A Diamond by Fred Cuellar.)

Should your lady pick out the ring? If you want to surprise her, you can casually ask what she likes, maybe during a shopping trip, to get ideas. Before purchasing a ring, ask the jeweler about return policies if she doesn’t care for the mounting. In this case, present the ring, then the two of you go back to the store and she can select a mounting more to her liking. (I’ve actually orchestrated a proposal where the jeweler brought the ring to be presented with the understanding if she liked it, the groom would be purchasing it. If she didn’t like it, then the two of them would go into the store to select one she did like.)

If you want your bride to be to select her own ring, visit the jeweler ahead of time to talk with them about how much you want to spend so they will show rings only within the price range. Select your jeweler as you would a doctor. You want someone you can build a relationship with, as you will, no doubt, be purchasing additional jewelry items throughout your lifetime. You want someone you can trust, who you know will listen to what you want and who you know will deal upfront and honestly with you.

Okay, you’ve gotten down on one knee, popped the question, and she said yes…now what?

Here’s a list of what, traditionally, the groom and his family is responsible for…

Brides engagement/wedding rings.
Marriage License.
Ceremony official's fee (many times the bride’s family will pay this as well.)
(Going-away corsage for the bride if leaving directly on their honeymoon.)
Wedding gift for bride.
Gifts for best man and ushers
Wedding night suite
Rehearsal dinner
Honeymoon
Blood tests
Gloves, ties, and ascots for men in wedding party.

Attendants pay for:
Personal wedding attire.
Personal traveling expenses.
Personal hotel expenses

Why should you and your bride consider hiring a wedding coordinator?
Let me distinguish between a site coordinator (hotel wedding coordinator) and what I do. The hotel or site coordinator is just that. They are there for the benefit of the venue. I, on the other hand, am there to assist you and your bride with your planning by recommending qualified and proven vendors, working with you to figure out what to give your attendants, groomsmen, and even assist finding the right gift for your bride. I work with you both to be sure everything is in the order you want your day to be and then am on site to make sure it happens.

During your planning process, I’m available to assist with any questions, help you find a good tux shop, and even recommend a honeymoon spot.

Another important item I, as your wedding coordinator, do is to supply an extensive emergency kit. Buttons fall off, shirt necks don’t always fit or one of the groomsmen may have forgotten to brush his teeth. I can take care of all these things plus many more.

A good wedding coordinator is available to the groom as much as the bride. Groom’s love to surprise their brides with a lovely card, note or letter on their wedding day and I can be your “postman” to deliver it.

Have more questions about being a groom? Call me at 303-779-0395 or email me at tporterweddsetc@hotmail. I’m always happy to meet you over coffee, the lunch hour, after hours to assist you any way I can to allow you to enjoy your engagement and wedding planning process.

Yes, grooms, you are a very important part of the wedding…remember it’s your wedding too!!!

Wednesday, April 9, 2008

2008 Wedding Trends

2008 Wedding Trends

What’s hot and what’s not?

Colors are beautiful this year. Blues, in any shade, are very strong, especially when paired with metalliacs such as gold, silver, gray and platinum. Bold jewel tones are no longer just for the Fall and Winter weddings, but are making very bold statements. Most popular are the rich purples (purple in any shade is good), golds, oranges, and reds.

The hottest color for next season is purple from pale lavender to deep eggplant. Black, plum and navy, latte, coral and lavender, mauve, sage and turquoise, emerald, burgundy and chocolate are all the colors for the next four seasons. You will be seeing more use of floral and geometric patterns and a heavy emphasis on shiny metallics.

A European trend is gaining popularity here in the U.S. That is to choose deep, rich colors for their own wedding dresses as well as the bridesmaids. Traditional white will hold it’s top spot, but will pick up the color in smart accent details. Sashes, ribbons and embroidered detailing in fantastic colors will be seen on wedding dresses and complimented by everything from the choice of stationary, linens, added décor and even the wedding cake.

Look for multi-layers of fabric, including tinted multi-layered voile and chiffon. Chic brides will turn to colored crinoline underskirts and accent colors featured on the soles of their bridal shoes. (As an aside, for fun, have each bridesmaid sign the soles of your shoes and the name that shows the brightest at the end of the reception will be the next to get married!)

Vintage is in. Look for influences from the glory days of Hollywood and beyond. Romance is very evident in halter necklines, capelet sleeves, light and airy styles, strapless gowns, plunging necklines, antique lace, stain ribbons for straps, ruffles, tea length dresses in Spring and Summer (great for destination weddings as well as morning or afternoon weddings), diamond or crystal or rhinestone accessories, open-toed stilettos and dangling earrings. (If you can’t find what you like at the store, contact www.lesliesarts.com for custom make jewelry.)

“Green” weddings are gaining popularity. Brides are choosing to use their dollars to “give back”, using products such as recycled paper invitations (those made with flower seed imbedded are wonderful as your guests can “plant” their invitations and they add beauty to any garden). Brides are utilizing more local organic foods, antioxidant free meats, pesticide free floral and even dresses made from natural fibers.

Color plays a big part in all parts of your wedding, but especially in the décor. Reception décor is gaining speed in moving to a bold color pallet. Your room will “POP” with color and your guests will love it.

Personalizing more, items such as monograms, family heirlooms etc. are in vogue.
Next year – look for a modern twist to classic ideas.

Couples are turning from the round table look to the square tables, using vintage accents, international and ethnic themes.

Signature drinks and family recipes are in. Work with your caterer to come up with a signature drink that can be served either with or without alcohol. More couples are working in ethnic dishes, sometimes even providing a special recipe to the caterer.

An elegant idea to add to the cocktail is the addition of ports and cheeses along delicious chocolate treats, which never go out of style!

More and more couples are cutting their guest lists to 75-100 of their closest friends and family. With wedding costs coming close to $150 per person, the wow factor gets much larger with fewer guests.

For additional helpful information or for assistance with your wedding plans, contact Tanya at www.weddingsbytanya.com.

Tuesday, March 25, 2008

Silver Rose Proposals

This evening a gentleman is going to propose to the love of his life. (In this case, they've been married for 14 years and he wants to give her the wedding they never had.)

Whether you are getting engaged for the first or second time, coming up with a creative way to ask your beloved for her hand in marriage can be difficult.

I'm happy to offer this service in addition to my wedding coordination services. Together, we'll come up with the site, if you want a photographer, videographer, or want to enter with a horse and buggy, something that fits both your personalities.

Give me a call to help you come up with a proposal to remember. You can call 303-779-0395, email tporterweddsetc@hotmail.com or contact through www.weddingsbytanya.com

Saturday, March 1, 2008

Vail Elopement

Friday, Feb. 22, I had the honor of performing the ceremony for a lovely couple in Vail, CO. They had come from the east coast to enjoy the snow and attmosphere of Vail.

The day was beautiful. The sky was totally blue, the sun was shining on the fresh snow, that had falled the night before.

The bride was beautiful in her white wedding dress and veil, and the groom very handsome in his dark suit. Hand in hand they walked to the place where they wanted to exchange their vows.

We walked out behind the hotel and down a trail to be near a partially iced creek, flowing in the back ground. With the snow surrounding us, a friend. of the bride, standing up for the couple and acting as photographer, they exchanged their vows. Afterwards, we went back into the hotel to sign the license and they proceeded on to dinner.

Hoping that all who are newly engaged, planning a big wedding or an elopement, may all your dreams come true.

For more information on the packages I offer call 303-779-0395, email me at tporterweddsetc@hotmail.com or check out my website http://www.weddingsbytanya.com/ I'm looking forward to hearing from you!

Monday, February 18, 2008

Proposal Planning

Proposal planning is the latest thing in the wedding market.

When a couple is ready to make the big committment, sometimes a gentleman just doesn't know what or how he wants to do to make the proposal special so they are hiring a Proposal Planner to assist them.

Well, I'm that person! Not only can I assist you with the Proposal, but I can then assist you when planning your wedding as your Wedding Coordinator.

You want to keep in mind that this is a special time for both of you and select a way that fits you. Are you a romantic? Then how about a carriage ride, picnic and pop the question. Don't forget the photographer and or videographer to capture the moment.

I charge a flat fee, depending on the complexity of the proposal. For assistance, give me a call or email me at 303-779-0395 or tporterweddsetc@hotmail.com.

Let me help make this an event you'll remember the rest of your lives!

Thursday, February 14, 2008

Engagements

HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY! Tis the season of love!
Many couples will take advantage of the theme of the day to express their love and get engaged.

Take time to enjoy being engaged. Don't feel like you have to rush to the phone and start asking people to be part of your wedding party. Think this through first! Let the joy and fantastic feeling of being engaged sink in. Hopefully your parents will throw an Engagement Party. If they don't or don't live close enough, through one yourselves. Let your friends and family share in your joy.

One of the first things a bride-to-be should do is locate and hire a good wedding coordinator. Start your planning process out with little stress and the knowledge that you and your plans are in good hands.

When you do get ready to start planning, take a look at www.weddingsbytanya.com. I'm more than happy to work with you no matter where you are! 303-779-0395

Be sure to check out the WEDDING PLANNING GUIDE, A Bride's Workbook...one of the most complete and easy to use guides on the market.

HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY and HAPPY ENGAGEMENT!

Wednesday, January 23, 2008

Class being offered to help brides get started

Every quarter I offer a one night course through Arapahoe Community College in Littleton, CO for brides who need help in getting started. This is a 2.5 hr. class where you can ask questions and get answers. The class is Feb.13,2008 from 6:30 pm - 9:00 pm. This is a great class for the bride and her groom or mother to attend as it will give you a running start on your planning.

To register call 303-797-5722, ask for course PERS 1026W01 How to Plan your Wedding.

To hire a coordinator or not to--that is the question.

Why hire a wedding designer/coordinator?

You’ve started planning your wedding and the first thing you run into is the wedding coordinator at the venue you’ve chosen. Why then do you need to hire a wedding coordinator if one is already in the package?

What is the difference between a hotel wedding coordinator, a church wedding coordinator, a site wedding coordinator and a wedding coordinator?

A site coordinator is just that…they are there for the venue, whether it’s the church or hotel. They are there on behalf of the site to make sure the site is treated with respect and that the rules of the venue are followed. What they don’t do is sew on missing buttons, remove stains, supply black socks if a groomsman forgets his.

A wedding coordinator is someone you’ve worked with during the entire planning process and have come to trust. We know what you want, what your dream is and strive to make it happen.

Is hiring a wedding designer/coordinator worth the money? To be honest, I’m always hearing brides say that they wished they would have done it then maybe things would have run smoother, or they would have enjoyed their day.

A wedding designer/coordinator doesn’t have to be certified. Anyone can decide they want to plan weddings and set up shop. What being certified means is that the coordinator cared enough to get further training and the certificate shows they did. There are many organizations that offer certificates, including the one I’ve founded Trained Wedding Professionals, which offers the course “The Art of Wedding Coordination”. It never hurts to ask if the person you are considering has taken a course.

A wedding designer/coordinator will also work closely with your vendors so you don’t have to worry about them doing their job. It takes a team to have a successful wedding/event and a good coordinator knows how to make this happen.

Is it money well spent? This is something you need to decide for yourself. Don’t be afraid to ask for references then call them. Past clients will give you the most honest feedback you can get. Make your decision based on the experience of the coordinator as well as how they make you feel. Do they listen to you or do they try to tell you what they think you need? Do they make you feel at ease? If so, you’ve probably found the right person to entrust your wedding day to.

Need more information? Call 303-779-0395, e-mail tporterweddsetc@hotmail.com or go to www.weddingsbytanya.com. We’re happy to take calls and appointments after hours and week-ends to fit your schedule.

Day Of Services

Why my “Day Of” package isn’t $500.

Many are the times when brides or mothers comment on the fact that I charge what I do for the services I perform for the “Day Of” package. You’ve heard the statement “you get what you pay for and in many cases this is very true. I’m not saying that you won’t get good service if you pay less because I can only speak for myself. With 18 years of experience behind me, what I can tell you what you’ll receive if you hire me.

Yes, you may have found and contracted all your vendors; made your decisions on what food to serve; what musicians or DJs to use, but what you haven’t done is pull all facets together.

Putting together a timeline isn’t something that is done in an hour. Many weddings, I do, require weeks to pull everything together the way the bride wants the flow to go. Then the hard work starts. Not only do I make sure that the vendors will be at the venue, but I personally make a final tour of the facility to iron out any potential problems ahead of time.
I personally attend the rehearsal and choreograph it. The day of the wedding, I’m the first one on site and the last to leave the reception, stopping first by where the bride is getting ready, to make certain that the make-up artist and hair stylist have arrived and that she and her wedding party, have everything they need before I move onto the ceremony site. I’ve had times when I’ve been at the hotel at 5 am to get things started and haven’t left the reception until 2 am.

My job is to make sure the bride/groom and their families are able to be guests at their own wedding. Mom or Dad doesn’t have to worry about if the cake was delivered, if the chair covers are properly installed or that the cake topper, serving pieces, or the Waterford flutes are returned. All this takes time and effort.

I love what I do. There’s nothing more rewarding than seeing a beautiful, beaming bride float down the aisle to her waiting, handsome prince charming. Each wedding is important to me, whether you have chosen the Full Package, the Partial Package or the Day Of, you will be treated, as you deserve, as a princess for the day.
Need more information? Call 303-779-0395 or check out www.weddingsbytanya.com